My little thoughts for living..

Only the present is Real. The Past is only in our Minds. The Future is in our Projected Minds.

Get to Know and Love your Outer Self. But Get to know and Love your Inner Self more. Your outer self is the sum total of others' perception of you. Your inner self is the sum total of your perception of yourself. If the Knowledge of your inner self is deep and complete, only one Self remains.

Forget, if you can. For, who are you, to forgive another when you need forgiveness yourself?

There is no unselfish act in this world. This is the very nature of things.

Just accept and do it. Keep accepting and doing . Keep on accepting and doing . That’s all is expected of you.



About Me

Chennai, Tamilnadu, India
home maker, working professional . Woman . Wife, Mom, Daughter. More. All in a mixed parody of sorts! Don't know whether I have been accepted in any of these roles.I am Moody, yet love people. I ike solitude but also love scintillating conversation. Creative , yet able to withstand being hemmed in by mediocrity! Practical, yet irrational. Hardworking, but love to laze around doing nothing at all for periods on end! Like to travel, but havent travelled at all:)Spiritual ,yet constantly seeking to learn more about it.!I am ,various things to various people and enjoy all the games I play!

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Monday, December 14, 2009

Love, relationships and Yourself!

How do you apply the principle of Rational vs Emotional to the relationships in your life? In love?
I am completely in agreement with the lines I read somewhere that “Love is a magical feeling that can defy rational thought in an individual, but that relationships and the overall aspects of love should be approached rationally.” Is the relationship also based on mutual trust, companionship, affection, caring, shared interests/goals, security ? And Is your love reciprocated ?
I think its completely possible to love someone and still rationally know that the relationship is wrong, unhealthy, or will just not work. The “love” is about the feelings for the other. But the rationality comes in when you begin thinking about yourself, your emotional well-being, your personality and your growth, in context to this other person.
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